I recently discovered two of my grandmother’s delicate China dessert plates and was suddenly filled with a rush of childhood memories of the weekends I spent at Grammy’s house. On Saturday mornings, she woke me extremely early—5:30 a.m., to be exact.
"Time's a wastin'," she said, yanking the covers off me.
I grumbled because, unlike Grammy, I wasn’t accustomed to getting up early on Saturday mornings.
“Stop your bellyaching!” she replied with softness in her voice. “Get dressed then we’ll eat breakfast."
I dressed and stumbled blurry-eyed into her kitchen, inhaling the sweet aroma of percolating coffee wafting through the air. I pulled out a chair and sat down at her tiny table nestled in a corner of her kitchen. On the table, there was always a vase of flowers and two plates, a green-leafed one for her and a pink-flowered one for me. Each plate held a homemade, warm bran muffin, her favorite.
We sat quietly, eating our muffins. She sipped on her cup of coffee, heavy on the cream, and scanned the morning newspaper looking for bargains while I drank my hot cocoa and read the comics.
“Be a lady. Sit up straight.” She interjected. “Slowly nibble on your muffin. For heaven’s sake, don’t slurp your hot cocoa or lick your fingers!”
Soon, great Aunt Maudie arrived, filling Grammy’s house with energy and laughter. The three of us walked hand-in-hand down Belmont Street where we took the city bus downtown. Grammy and Aunt Maudie shopped all morning at Titche's, a now-extinct upscale department store, trying on clothes and shoes and oohing and ahhing over the jewelry counter, rarely buying anything. We lunched at the Woolworth's lunch counter and then made our way downstairs to the bargain basement. They spent the entire afternoon rummaging through its clearance bins, always finding something to take home.
With their purchases in hand, we climbed back up the stairs. Before boarding the bus, we stopped again at Woolworth’s lunch counter where they splurged, spending 25 cents on deluxe tulip sundaes—one for each of us.
A lifetime has passed since my childhood days spent with Grammy and Great Aunt Maudie. In fact, I’m now my grandmother’s age. For some inexplicable reason, I always wake up around 5:30 a.m., unable to sleep any longer.
“Time’s a wastin’,” I can hear Grammy’s voice echoing in my mind. Before venturing outside for my morning walk, I take the time to warm a bran muffin (now my favorite) and place it on Grammy’s pink flowered plate, slowly nibbling on it, relishing the early morning sunlight filtering through my dining-room window.
Sometimes I can feel Grammy's presence in the room with me and swear I hear her genteel voice saying, "Sit up straight. Slowdown! Make your muffin last."
“Okay, Grammy,” I say under my breath. “I’ll be a lady,” resisting the urge to lick my fingers.
My pink-flowered plate is full, filled to capacity with heartfelt memories of Grammy, Great Aunt Maudie, and the love we shared.
